Tristan Collin Stately
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CANDID ID: MN_24_2365
AGE
5   years
STATE
Minnesota
DATE OF DEATH
3/16/2024
STATE REPORTS
Not Available
SUMMARY OF DEATH
On March 15, 2024, five-year-old Tristan Collin Stately was attacked by his mother, Jennifer Marie Stately, at their home on the Red Lake Indian Reservation in Minnesota. Jennifer stabbed Tristan and his six-year-old brother Remi with a knife or sharp object, then set fire to the residence with both children still inside. Tristan suffered multiple sharp force injuries and died from inhalation of products of combustion (smoke inhalation) on March 16, 2024. After the attack, Jennifer fled the scene with her surviving three-year-old son, prompting an AMBER Alert. She was located and arrested in Todd County after a motorist spotted her vehicle, and the surviving child was recovered showing visible signs of chronic neglect. Jennifer Stately was indicted on federal charges including premeditated murder, murder in the course of child abuse, murder in the course of arson, arson, and felony child neglect.
Contexts/Conditions

Is there any mention of child drug ingestion or overdose?

Is there any mention of a drowning incident (either intentional or accidental)?

Is there any mention of a firearm incident?

Is there any mention of inappropriate supervision (e.g., child wandered off and drowned)?

Is there any mention of inflicted injury? (e.g. slapped, punched, kicked, choked)

The vital record (2024-MN-011702.pdf) lists "Multiple Sharp Force Injuries" as part of the cause of death and the injury description reads "Stabbed By Assailant(S), Left In Residence With Intentional Fire Set." The DOJ press release states Stately "slashed at Minor A and Minor B with a knife or other sharp object." The USA Today article confirms the children were stabbed, with one child "stabbed in the chest" and the other suffering "stab wounds."

Is there any mention of malnutrition, starvation, or dehydration?

Is there any mention of medical neglect?

Is there any mention of a motor vehicle crash or incident?

Is there any mention of a murder-suicide incident?

Is there any mention of outdoor elements (including hot car deaths)?

Is there any mention of prenatal substance exposure (including fetal alcohol syndrome or neonatal abstinence syndrome)?

Is there any mention of sexual abuse?

Is there any specific mention of shaken baby or abusive head trauma?

Is there any mention of prolonged abuse or torture (including restraints, captivity)?

Is there any mention of an unsafe sleeping environment?

Individuals Involved

Was an adoptive parent or guardian involved in the death?

Was a biological father involved in the death?

Was a biological mother involved in the death?

All sources identify the mother, Jennifer Marie Stately, as the perpetrator. The DOJ press release states "Jennifer Marie Stately, 35, attacked and killed Minor A and Minor B." The USA Today article identifies her as the mother and states she was "indicted on charges of premeditated murder." The vital record (2024-MN-011702.pdf) lists the manner of death as homicide and describes the injury as "Stabbed By Assailant(S)." The USA Today article confirms the children were "Born to (Jennifer) Stately and Brian Graves Jr.," confirming she is the biological mother.

Was a day care worker, babysitter, or nanny involved in the death?

Was a female paramour or friend involved in the death (e.g., girlfriend, stepmother)?

Was a foster parent involved in the death?

Was a male paramour or friend involved in the death (e.g., boyfriend, stepfather)?

Was another adult relative involved in the death? (e.g., grandfather, aunt)

Was a sibling involved in the death?

Child Characteristics

Was the child adopted?

Was the child homeschooled (including "cyberschooling") or taken out of school?

Was the child in foster care at the time of the incident?

Was the child living with relatives at the time of the incident (but not parents)?

Is there any mention of a neurological developmental child disability? (e.g., autism, intellectual disability, nonverbal)

Is there any mention of a physical child disability? (e.g., feeding tube)

Is there any mention of prematurity or low birthweight?

Is there a history of child protection reports prior to death (for this child or siblings)?

Does the child have a history of foster care (but not in care at time of incident)?

Is there a history of a sibling death (separate incident from this death)?

Parent/Caregiver Factors

Was an adult charged or arrested for the child's death?

The DOJ press release states Jennifer Marie Stately was charged with "one count of premeditated murder, one count of murder in the course of committing child abuse, one count of murder in the course of committing arson, one count of arson, and one count of felony child neglect." The USA Today article confirms she was "indicted Monday on charges of premeditated murder, murder while committing child abuse, arson, murder while committing arson, and felony child neglect." She was arrested in Todd County and later appeared in U.S. District Court.

Is domestic violence by the parent/caregiver referenced?

Is there any mention that the death occurred in a temporary shelter or while homeless?

Is an intellectual disability of the parent/caregiver referenced?

Is the mental health of the parent/caregiver referenced?

Is a history of arrests or criminal charges for the parent/caregiver referenced?

Is substance use by the parent/caregiver referenced?

Notable Details

Several notable details emerge from the documents. First, because the deaths occurred on the Red Lake Indian Reservation, jurisdiction fell to federal authorities; the FBI led the investigation and the U.S. Attorney's Office filed charges in U.S. District Court. Initial state charges in Todd County were dismissed and the case was moved to federal jurisdiction. Second, the AMBER Alert system played a critical role in rescuing the surviving 3-year-old sibling, Ethan; as the DOJ press release notes, "a motorist spotted Stately's vehicle and contacted law enforcement." Third, the surviving child was found with signs of chronic neglect: the USA Today article states "the boy's teeth were rotten and he had open sores and lesions on his body," and hospital staff said the wounds "could be from a burn caused by heat or chemicals" (Star Tribune), suggesting a broader pattern of child maltreatment in the household beyond the fatal incident. The children were members of the Eagle Clan of the Red Lake Band, as noted in the Star Tribune article.

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