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CANDID ID: CA_23_254
AGE
2   years
STATE
California
DATE OF DEATH
10/2/2023
DEATH RECORDS
Not Available
STATE REPORTS
Not Available
SUMMARY OF DEATH
A 2-year-old child died in a Rodeo, California apartment on or around October 2, 2023. Police were initially called to the California Street apartment for a report of a child having drowned, but authorities later determined the death was the result of prolonged abuse. The child's mother, Destiny Deboe (22), and her boyfriend, Tyshawn Haywood (21), were arrested and charged with murder, child abuse causing death, and two counts of torture. A 10-month-old sibling was also hospitalized with injuries from abuse. Neither victim was identified by name or gender.
Contexts/Conditions

Is there any mention of child drug ingestion or overdose?

Is there any mention of a drowning incident (either intentional or accidental)?

The news article states that "police were called to their California Street apartment for a report of a child having drowned, but authorities later determined the death was the result of 'prolonged abuse.'" A drowning incident was initially reported, suggesting the child may have been found in water or the caregivers staged a drowning scenario, though authorities ultimately attributed the death to prolonged abuse rather than drowning.

Is there any mention of a firearm incident?

Is there any mention of inappropriate supervision (e.g., child wandered off and drowned)?

Is there any mention of inflicted injury? (e.g. slapped, punched, kicked, choked)

The news article reports charges of murder, child abuse causing death, and torture, and describes the death as the result of "prolonged abuse." While specific types of inflicted injury are not detailed for this child, the charges of torture and prolonged abuse necessarily imply inflicted injuries upon the child.

Is there any mention of malnutrition, starvation, or dehydration?

Is there any mention of medical neglect?

Is there any mention of a motor vehicle crash or incident?

Is there any mention of a murder-suicide incident?

Is there any mention of outdoor elements (including hot car deaths)?

Is there any mention of prenatal substance exposure (including fetal alcohol syndrome or neonatal abstinence syndrome)?

Is there any mention of sexual abuse?

Is there any specific mention of shaken baby or abusive head trauma?

Is there any mention of prolonged abuse or torture (including restraints, captivity)?

The news article states the couple was charged with "two counts of torture — one for each victim" and that "authorities later determined the death was the result of 'prolonged abuse.'" The combination of torture charges and the characterization of the abuse as prolonged directly indicates deliberately cruel treatment over an extended period.

Is there any mention of an unsafe sleeping environment?

Individuals Involved

Was an adoptive parent or guardian involved in the death?

Was a biological father involved in the death?

Was a biological mother involved in the death?

The news article explicitly states: "Deboe was both victims' mother." Destiny Deboe, the biological mother, was charged with murder, child abuse causing death, and two counts of torture.

Was a day care worker, babysitter, or nanny involved in the death?

Was a female paramour or friend involved in the death (e.g., girlfriend, stepmother)?

Was a foster parent involved in the death?

Was a male paramour or friend involved in the death (e.g., boyfriend, stepfather)?

The news article explicitly states: "Haywood is her boyfriend." Tyshawn Haywood, the mother's boyfriend (male paramour), was jointly charged with murder, child abuse causing death, and two counts of torture.

Was another adult relative involved in the death? (e.g., grandfather, aunt)

Was a sibling involved in the death?

Child Characteristics

Was the child adopted?

Was the child homeschooled (including "cyberschooling") or taken out of school?

Was the child in foster care at the time of the incident?

Was the child living with relatives at the time of the incident (but not parents)?

Is there any mention of a neurological developmental child disability? (e.g., autism, intellectual disability, nonverbal)

Is there any mention of a physical child disability? (e.g., feeding tube)

Is there any mention of prematurity or low birthweight?

Is there a history of child protection reports prior to death (for this child or siblings)?

Does the child have a history of foster care (but not in care at time of incident)?

Is there a history of a sibling death (separate incident from this death)?

Parent/Caregiver Factors

Was an adult charged or arrested for the child's death?

The news article states: "Deboe and Haywood were arrested Monday" and that they "were charged with murder, child abuse causing death, and two counts of torture."

Is domestic violence by the parent/caregiver referenced?

Is there any mention that the death occurred in a temporary shelter or while homeless?

Is an intellectual disability of the parent/caregiver referenced?

Is the mental health of the parent/caregiver referenced?

Is a history of arrests or criminal charges for the parent/caregiver referenced?

Is substance use by the parent/caregiver referenced?

Notable Details

The news article provides notable contextual details: (1) The caregivers initially reported the death as a drowning, but authorities later determined it was from "prolonged abuse," suggesting a potential cover-up attempt. (2) The article notes this case was filed "just days after a shockingly similar child abuse, torture, and homicide case ended in a plea deal" (the Annai Diaz case), and while a jury was simultaneously deliberating on another child murder case one block away (the Amary Darn case), highlighting a disturbing cluster of child abuse homicide cases in Contra Costa County. (3) Authorities did not identify either victim by name or gender, which is notable given the victims' young ages.

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